Having gone through a devastating and painful miscarriage, the thought of having that be public once again frightens me. The whole process is frightening to be honest. But, I vowed to be honest in writing this, and I strongly disagree with keeping such a monumental time in life such a secret. I can understand why so many couples do, but at the same time I just don't agree with it. Support is a crucial component in this process and vitally important. Nevermind the information that is shared between women going through IVF. There's always a million questions you want to ask, or want to know the answers to. Sometimes you just need another lady friend to gab with, who truly knows what you're going through. Or, you learn something that you had no idea existed. I honestly had someone tell me after reading about their white flow, "Oh! So that's what that is! I had no idea." Let's be honest ladies, there's too many things that go on in our bodies. And let's face it, how many mom's really want to talk to you about them when you're growing up. Like you'd really listen anyways. If I don't say it, then who will?
I'm going to guess that some of you feel like what I write is too personal and shouldn't be discussed. Tough shit! Find a new blog if you feel that way. This is real life, it's my life, and I never really learned how to keep my mouth shut.
Honesty is the best policy. That's my motto, I'm going to attempt to stick to it.